After going through today's devotional with my wife in which we talked about mercy, the thought of this blog entry from September 2016 came to me, this is about a man that we reached through Rayed Radio in the Ivory Coast, again I thought that only by the grace of God could this humble servant be relevant in the salvation of a family so far away, just like with young Pastor Chandra in Nepal I being able to message those followers in the fact that we are not born Christians, but the only way to salvation is to accept Jesus as our Savior and to have 7 new believers, 7 God's complete number again only through God's mercy have I been able to serve and will continue to do so while He keeps me in this earth.
Tuesday, April 5, 2022
Wednesday, September 22, 2021
3 TYPES OF DATING VIOLENCE
Dating Violence can be complex, and there 3 types of abuse that will occur in a dating relationship, and escalate if not addressed, they are: verbal, emotional, physical, and sexual.
Emotional & Verbal Abuse:
Emotional abuse is the result of the aggressor wanting to be in control of the other person’s behavior and or feelings. The abuser tries to limit his or her partner’s ability to act independently, undermining their confidence. Verbal abuse includes all lack of respect towards a partner, usually begins with swearing at a partner, insulting then belittling them, and finally threatening them with words.
Physical Abuse:
In most cases, males use physical force to show they are in control (I only hurt you because of how much I love you), while females use it to protect themselves, to retaliate, or fear of being assaulted. Physical abuse includes hair-pulling, biting, shoving, slapping, choking, strangling, punching, kicking, burning, advancing all the way to using or threatening to use a weapon, and holding a partner hostage.
Sexual Abuse:
Sexual abuse includes unwanted sexual touching, force, or pressure (you will do it if you love me) to get a partner to consent, rape or attempted rape, and attempting or having sex with a person who is under the influence of alcohol or drugs.
Tuesday, September 21, 2021
In
light of the horrific and tragic death of Gabby Petito days ago, I am reminded
of the critical need to educate youth and young adults about healthy and
unhealthy relationships. How can we turn
a blind-eye when we know the consequences?
I
am a college Social Work Professor who has found it incredibly surprising that
the majority of my students have not received information about dating violence
and unhealthy relationships. Even kids of amazingly informative and loving
parents are being threatened, hurt, or worse by their boyfriend/girlfriend.
I’ve had three opportunities to talk with teens or college-aged students, and
each time, I was approached with a story of presently being in an
unhealthy/violent relationship.
Our
youth and young adults need education, our support, and connection to all of
the services they need. Prevention and
intervention are critical. We cannot assume youth have the tools to avoid
unhealthy relationships or know the resources for those in the midst of one.
Further, many may know or have known a friend or relative trapped in an unsafe
relationship, and need help. Let us be fountains of love, grace, support, and
wisdom.
In
my teen years, I felt that I had no resources or persons to share my troubles
with regarding being in an abusive relationship. I suffered in silence with
mountains of anxiety and depression. Dating violence was not discussed at home,
by friends, or at school. Most likely, I was not the only one from my high
school suffering in silence. As I look back on those years, I believe that
shame and low self-esteem prevented me from reaching out. Our communities need
to know the “red flags,” and how to help.
Let
there be no more tragedies such as that of Gabby Petito.
Tuesday, April 7, 2020
THREE SHORT MONTHS
You shall not make for yourself a carved image—any likeness of anything that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth; you shall not bow down to them nor serve them. For I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children to the third and fourth generations of those who hate Me,
2 Chronicles 7:14 (NKJV)
if My people who are called by My name will humble themselves, and pray and seek My face, and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin and heal their land.
Romans 8:4 (NKJV)
that the righteous requirement of the law might be fulfilled in us who do not walk according to the flesh but according to the Spirit.
Our God is a very jealous God
Yes, our God is a very jealous God, while He gives us the ability to decide, He also warned us of consequences that we would face his wrath. Knowing that God was, is and will always be should be enough to forewarn us that we will pay for our sins, and as we pray for his will on heaven as in earth there is then the assurance that we will pay for our sins also on this earth.
Today with this pandemic that we are facing, we are to be reminded that just like the Great Flood, and the plagues of Egypt, today God has acted and has taken away those things that our society worships.
Our society worships athletes, musicians, actors, money; ok lets shut down stadiums, theaters, music halls, and the economy, and since going to church seems to have become a social gathering rather than a place of worship, we might as well shut down churches as well.
In three short months just like the plagues He has allowed for them all to be shut down, thus, taking away all that we worship in place of Him.
Way back in the Old Testament in 2 Chronicles 7:14 written by Ezra in the 5th century BC roughly 2, 520 years to when this current pandemic hit us, just as for Israel’s forgiveness of sin and healing of the land would be theirs, today as per Romans 8:4 forgiveness of our sins and healing of the land will be ours not because of the flesh but according to and because of the Spirit.
More than a vaccine to get over this season what we need during this time of forced isolation from the distractions of this world is to pray in order to have a personal revival while focusing on the ONLY thing that really matter, JESUS, our salvation, and to love one another.
Wednesday, November 27, 2019
God’s Answers To Our Thoughts
U Be The Change
Tuesday, November 26, 2019
METHAMPHETAMINES
Recently during my morning walks I was walking behind a young man who kept turning back to his left as well his right even going to the point of pulling his backpack and holding it in a menacing offensive manner as he continued looking back towards me. I realized the young man was suffering the effects of methamphetamine use one of paranoia, mind you I was not following him at all. To my surprise he walked towards a close building and was watching me all the time, I just put him in my prayers at that very moment.
Now this morning there was a car in front of me when I pulled out my phone to read a message I had just received when the driver of the car came to a stop and in a very threatening manner accused me of following him and taking his information, he even told me what he would do as he would kick my posterior. Earlier in my life I would have probably reacted in a very defensive manner and taken things into my hands, but I leaned on my Lord and my experience and just moved on, now I was concerned so I called a friend and asked that she remain on the phone in case this person came back and to call 911 if she heard anything.
After praying on the matter I did see the individual when he came back to his place and I did approach him first to assure him that I have no reason to follow him nor to report him to the authorities if he is not doing something wrong and as a matter of fact that I was there to help him not hurt him and that I had a message for him, well it lead to my being allowed to pray for him and offer my services to him. Thanks be to God for using me and allowing me to react in this manner and win another soul.
Because of that experience I would like to offer the following on the topic of Methamphetamine use in our society;
Methamphetamine is a very strong stimulant. With some methods of administration, there is a fast “rush” of euphoria followed by a long period of less intense euphoria. When meth is ingested, there is no rush but the high may last for as long as ten hours.
The user has more energy than normal and will not be able to sleep until the drug wears off. If he has plenty of the drug, he may continually re-dose until he has been up for days. If he runs out of the drug, he will crash and sleep around the clock. He will not have an appetite, meaning that he will probably lose a lot of weight. Heavy meth users become gaunt and look pale and unhealthy. He or she will probably appear unusually active but may also act nervous and anxious.
The user’s body temperature will go up and he may appear hot and sweaty without the environment being hot or his having been physically active. Pupils will be dilated and blood pressure will go up. He or she may become sexually excited.
Meth abuse results in the following adverse effects:
- Deterioration of appearance
- Irregular or rapid heartbeat
- Erratic, changeable moods
- Aggressive behavior
- Paranoia that can become severe
- Confusion
- Insomnia
- Damage to teeth
- Rough skin with sores
Meth is highly addictive. Some people have stated that just one or two uses was all it took for them to become addicted.
David Barberis
U Be The Change
Friday, November 22, 2019
THE CHRISTMAS TREE
Thursday, November 21, 2019
OVERCOMING THE PAST
2 Corinthians 5:17 With God we can overcome the past...
"If only I weren't..."
We can spend time trying to overcome what we did or did not do in the past but what we cannot do is change what we did or did not do. What we can do is focus on the here and now and change what we do in the here and now. We cannot change what happened in the past but we can change the way we deal with what happened in the past.
If the obstacles of your present life are obstacles from your past, your best chance of success are dealing with your present obstacles in the here and now. You can only live today, not yesterday, not last week, or last year, or ten years ago. You can only fix problems you have now, even if your present problems are from ten years ago.
Change what you can change today because you cannot change what you did or what happened to you yesterday. For example, today you can forgive in order to erase the hurt from yesterday.
If these words have been a blessing to you please forward them to a friend.
Be The Change
Wednesday, July 24, 2019
DESPIERTA AMERICA
David Barberis
Sunday, April 21, 2019
El Perdon de Dios
Friday, November 30, 2018
EL ARBOL DE NAVIDAD
Saturday, August 19, 2017
WOMAN STOP PUTTING PRESSURE ON YOURSELF
Thursday, January 26, 2017
His Grace Is Sufficient
“And He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.”
Let's be like Paul who did not walk around thumping his chest or showing that he was Jesus’s best disciple, Paul did not play that game. Although he had a very good religious education and Jewish lineage, he preferred to recognize his weaknesses in which God had triumphed over his limitations.
Wednesday, January 25, 2017
Jesus Is The Gospel
Thursday, November 3, 2016
I HAVE MET AN ANGEL FROM GOD
The Bible tells us that God’s angels are also spirit beings. They are ministering spirits.
Throughout history God’s angels have appeared to people many times. The Bible is full of these kinds of stories from the Virgin Mary, to Daniel, to the apostle John in the Book of Revelation.
However, the Bible also warns us that Satan and his demons can appear to us as angels of light. Thus, you will need proper discernment from the Holy Spirit if an angel were to ever appear to you.
The false religions of Islam and Mormonism, as well some cults that hide themselves in Christianity are perfect examples of demons appearing as angels of light to the people who started these false religions, sects or cults.
If those people would have known how to properly test a spirit appearing to them, those demon angels could have easily been stopped dead in their tracks and those false visions and beliefs could have easily been prevented from ever having started up.
When an angel suddenly has appeared to me, the first thing I do to do is properly test it out. 1 John tells us exactly how to do this. Here is the verse:
“Beloved, do not believe every spirit, BUT TEST THE SPIRITS, whether they are of God; because many false prophets have gone out into the world.
By this you know the Spirit of God: Every spirit that confesses that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is of God, and every spirit that does not confess that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is not of God.
And this is the spirit of the antichrist, which you have heard was coming, and is now already in the world.” (1 John 4:1-4)
What this means is that you directly ask the angel to identify who his Lord and Master is. And that angel better say that it is Jesus Christ. Then I ask him or her to confess that Jesus Christ came to earth in the flesh.
If that angel cannot make this direct confession to me that Jesus Christ has already come to our earth in the flesh, then I would know that I am dealing with a real, live, demonic spirit masquerading as an angel of light.
At this point, I command the demon to now leave me in the name of Jesus Christ.
In addition to the above test, we all can receive a strong discerning of spirits direct from the Holy Spirit. Immediately sensing that something is not right with this angel, picking up with a strong inner knowing that this is not an angel from God.
How did I know that this an angel came from God, because I feel a sense of peace and comfort coming in from the Holy Spirit, as He should be bearing witness that this is one of God’s angels.
Our Father loves us endlessly and He showers us with blessings sometimes material, sometimes spiritual, sometimes in the form of a light and some times in the form of a beautiful human being, well I have met that Angel, and that Angel is right here on this earth right now.
Tuesday, September 22, 2015
DO WE NEED INTERCESSORY PRAYERS?
“Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.”
Question: Do We Need Intercessory Prayers?
Answer: Nowhere in the Bible are we instructed as believer in Christ to pray to anyone other than God, nowhere is it mentioned or are we encouraged as believers to ask anyone in heaven for their prayers. To ask for anyone other than Jesus Christ or the Holy Spirit to intercede for us is blatantly unbiblical. Hebrew 4:16 tells us that we as believers here on earth can “approach the throne of grace with confidence.”
First Timothy 2:5 very clearly states, "For there is one God and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus." There is no one else that can mediate with God for us. Since the Bible tells that Jesus is the ONLY mediator, then none other mediate our prayer requests to God. Further, the Bible tells us that Jesus Christ Himself is interceding for us before the Father: "Therefore He is able to save completely those who come to God through Him, because He always lives to intercede for them" (Hebrews 7:25). With Jesus Himself interceding for us, why would we need anyone else to intercede for us? Will god listen to someone else more closely than to His Son? We are told in Romans 8:26 that the Holy Spirit intercedes for us. So if the 2nd and 3rd members of the Holy Trinity are already interceding for us before the Father in heaven, what could possible lead us to believe that we need to have any other entity interceding for us?
Some say that Paul asked the Ephesians to pray for him and that is correct, however if we examine that claim. First the Apostle Paul does asks other Christians to pray for him in Ephesians 6:19. And many Scriptures describe believers praying for one another (2 Corinthians 1:11; Ephesians 1:16; Philippians 1:19; 2 Timothy 1:3). However nowhere does the Bible mention anyone asking for someone in heaven to pray for him. Second we are absolutely not given any indications in the Bible that anyone else in heaven can hear our prayers. There is none other than God who is omniscient. Even while some are glorified in heaven, they are still finite beings with limitations. How could they possibly hear the prayers of millions of people? Bible references to praying to or speaking with the dead, are in the context of sorcery, witchcraft, necromancy, and divination, all activities that are strongly condemned in the Bible (Leviticus 20:27; Deuteronomy 18:10-13). There is one instance when a "saint" is spoken to, Samuel in 1 Samuel 28:7-19, Samuel is not exactly happy to be disturbed. Therefore it is clear that praying to anyone other than God in heaven is completely different from asking someone here on earth to pray for us.
God answers prayers if they are asked according to His will per 1 John 5:14-15 He does not answer prayers based on who is praying. There is absolutely no basis or need to pray to anyone other than God alone. There is no basis for asking those who are in heaven to pray for us. Only God hears our prayers. Only God answers our prayers. No one in heaven has any greater access to God's throne than we do through prayer (Hebrews 4:16).
Friday, September 11, 2015
LEAD WITH INTEGRITY
“His brothers therefore said to Him, Depart from here and go into Judea, that Your disciples also may see the works that You are doing. For no one does anything in secret while he himself seeks to be known openly. If You do these things show Yourself to the world.”
At first Jesus’ family had a hard time believing in him, even though some of his brothers like James would eventually become leaders of the church. At one point they were even embarrassed by him. They knew He could perform miracles though and as such they tried to pressure Him into going to the Feast of the Tabernacle and put on a performance by wowing some into rebelling against the Romans. Jesus could have followed their advice, put on a performance and possibly even launch a political career, what better place than “The Feast.”
Jesus though was not a crowd pleaser or a performer, He knew what his mission on earth was, and that was to redeem people of their sins, not to put on performances, pleasing his family, or winning fans. Again He knew his purpose and He kept that purpose in mind. Jesus was not persuaded to turn away, not even for that one day of what would have been certain earthly glory and fame.
As leaders of the church we should follow Jesus’ example and not follow others agendas, we need to stand firm and keep our goals in focus our missions dealing with integrity knowing that we cannot allow ourselves to be persuaded to cave in to others people pleasing, glory grabbing decisions. Pursuing our goals and doing our service while leading with integrity may not be the easiest or most popular path, however it normally proves itself as the wiser path to follow.
Whatever our call or ministry is, whether mopping up in the background, or delivering the grandest of sermons, we are leaders and counselors, we are a reflection of our Lord and Savior to others, specially non-believers who take a cue from our actions therefor we should lead with wisdom and integrity without fanfare or self-aggrandizing, keeping our service and goals in mind, to share the Word, plant the seed and let them know that they could be redeemed of theirs sins.
Thursday, September 3, 2015
Set The Church On Fire Message
"I indeed baptize you with water unto repentance, but He who is coming after me is mightier than I, whose sandals I am not worthy to carry. He will baptize you with the Holy Spirit and fire."
Matthew 3:11 New King James Version (NKJV)
MISAEL'S TESTIMONY
Last Sunday just before service started, this young man came up to Carmen and I and introduced himself, after very graciously going through his introduction, he asked us if we were interested in hearing his testimony.
The recording you can witness here is the result of his approaching us to tells us and my being so impressed by him as a young man and by his testimony that I asked him if he would be interested in sharing it with those that I minister to.
After meeting his parent to get permission, Carmen recorded him both in English and in Spanish, yet the surprises were not done.
Once we were done recording him, he asked if now he could get permission to do something, to pray for Carmen and I and for our ministry which he did in a way that made tears roll down my face.
The Lord is using this young man like He does all of us in such magnificent ways.
I am so thankful to our Father that He brought Misael into our lives. Join me in praying for him that the Lord continues to use him and that his own ministry grows and edifies those that he comes in contact with just like he touched us.
Wednesday, August 26, 2015
THE LORD, ANANIAS AND SAUL
“Now there was a certain disciple at Damascus named Ananias; and to him the Lord said in a vision, ‘Ananias.’ And he said, ‘Here I am Lord.”
We know the story, the Lord speaks to Ananias advising him of Saul, yes that Saul who used to persecute Christians, Ananias even thought of his own imprisonment should Saul have his way. Imagine what Ananias would have thought, not Saul that is impossible, he could never become a Christian, everyone knew that Saul was bad news for Christians, his reputation preceded him.
Here the Lord was asking Ananias to go and meet the man who held the warrant for his arrest, Ananias could have just ran the other way, yet Ananias chose to obey God regardless of what negative possibilities might exist.
Every Christian was at the mercy of Saul until God stepped in. All of a sudden Saul felt blind and at the mercy of the same Christians, perhaps it was payback time, you know what goes around comes around. Not here God in all His might was turning everything upside down!
Imagine how Saul must have felt, the first experience he had was a total stranger calling him brother before placing his hands on and praying that his sight be healed. Think Ananias may have had second thoughts? What a lasting impression Ananias left on Saul that when he later became Paul and was telling a crowd of his conversion the only person he named by name was Ananias.
Even though Ananias role in Saul’s conversion was so small, think of the significance of this event. Ananias probably did not realize the importance of his participation. Just like Ananias we usually cannot imagine what God accomplishes through our small efforts. We are not asked to understand His entire plan. All we are asked is to be faithful as we do our part. There will be plenty of opportunities for you to do your part today, what impossible mission do you feel or sense that God will place in front of you today? Be obedient, have no fear, for with Him nothing is impossible.
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