PSYCHOLOGY SURRENDERS

Today as a clinical psychologist with 25 years of vast experience in the fields of prevention and treatment of mental illness, working with couples and undermined marriages, counseling men who have planted churches consisting of between 500 to 5000 members, and leading 100 to 600 young people in public religious and social events.

Today, that knowledge, and experience surrenders before an act of unconditional love.

I have always maintained a stance against the mechanism of generalization, for instance something like: "all women are the same," as a simple example:

A shy boy who is (shameful) when communication with the girls... we can say that his response ("shame", which are actually multiple answers, both cognitive and physiological) is a conditioned response. Imagine that once this guy tried to invite to a girl, but she refused it. This situation (rejection) would be the E.I. for "shame" (R.I.), and then conditioned as R.C. before the girl (E.C.), who was previously a neutral stimulus. Then, the boy is prone to feeling shame when approaching any woman his age (generalization), but not so with men, or older women (like his mother, teachers...), or little girls. The latter being discriminatory.

The example is pretty simple, but it serves to illustrate the concepts.

All this and more has been applied in my "vast experience" as a therapist and resulting in the satisfaction of solved cases, just as other as others are not solved.

Only when it pertains to you and after days and nights of overcoming duels, and the heart divorced from reason and knowledge. You understand that all that human knowledge is unspeakably passed by with an act of love.

Real love does not coincide with theory or scientific knowledge, giving your life for another, without conditions or asking for anything in return, would be called madness by Science.

This "madness", is the unconditional love JESUS demonstrated to us, that unconditional love, He demonstrates to all of us, still overcoming humanity’s rejection. Because God’s everlasting plans did not include for us to be rejected or posses the inability to love. Unfortunately, in our dark or sinful nature is inflicting pain or always defending ourselves from having pain inflicted to us.

Today this "madness" pierced my heart, reminding me that unconditional love is real: it is not MYTHICAL, it is given by the Father to others to love us as He loves us.

You say, the Bible says: "cursed are those who put their trust in mere humans…" Jeremiah 17:5. And today I answer: “Love…does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things Love never fails…” 1st Cor. 13.

This love is given from God to men. Therefore it is credible that there is "someone" flesh and bone that breaks away from the subliminal defense mechanisms of generalization, and even with all human and scientific law.

Today, this psychologist surrenders and testifies that I have experienced this love because I have witnessed it in his spirit, his soul and in his body. An act of true love overcomes any therapy and experience. This ACT OF LOVE silences the storms, humiliates and tears at pride, breaks the stones into the sea, and it heals seemingly incurable wounds, an act that find in clinics, workshops and group therapies (which help and are excellent tools). Love overcomes the faith, and together they will go only if they go hand in hand.

Today I would like to express that I claim my devotion and love for the Lord, and I have been treated by Him and one of his sons, that being the one who directs this Ministry. Publicly I express that in all these "years of experience, had not seen the ability, sincerity and transparency of humane treatment and restoration with which Pastor David Barberis has been gifted by God.”

I thank God for the opportunity to meet a person with such a gift. Thank God for the treatment of love and redemption that He has made in the life of this man of God, and that I have received: I repeat, it is an honor.

So in summary: psychology and any other science that seeks to conduct proactive or operating changes, will never exceed ACTS OF LOVE, where God blesses and provides some key people to work in his Kingdom, with that unconditional love.

Thank you Pastor David Barberis for being you...

Moral: Love is not mythical, is based on acts and facts that underpin the heart causing actions and reactions that are surprising to reasoning.

Carmen Ramos